Don't Fall For Pretty Pictures.

Here we’ll talk about one of the main mistakes that men make while building relationships online – falling for pretty pictures. When men fall only for pretty pictures, they don’t pay enough attention to ladies’ personalities.

If your goal is a long-term relationships or a life-long marriage, you should always remember that you will live with a character, not a picture! Beauty will fade but personalities won’t. Moreover, you can hardly find ANY ugly Russian lady. All the Russian women ARE beautiful!

I suggest you should take into account my 5 amazing tips in regards to Russian ladies’ photos: 

1.  Don’t fall for just sexy pictures. Many men, who write to the women with sexy pictures, forget about one simple thing: if her photo was a knockout for you, it will be a knockout for hundreds of other guys also. That is why the response from such ladies is usually very poor – too much competition. Moreover, think about the morals of the ladies who expose themselves to the entire world. Will you be able to have something serious and worthwhile with them? 

2. Don’t disregard the ladies with ‘modest’ photos. Not all of us are professional models and actors. Some people feel uneasy in front of the camera and sometimes they don’t even look their real self on their photos. That’s why ladies with photos like that don’t produce any ‘knockout’ effect and remain unnoticed. However, as I have already mentioned, ALL Russian women are beautiful! This is the peculiarity of our race. Beauty of our women is our national pride. Just ask a lady with ‘modest’ photos to take a couple of more RECENT ones when she is out or on holiday, and who knows, maybe you will discover a hidden diamond! Moreover, without a long line of desperate competitors. Also, you will be surprised, but at least 20% of the ladies with simple pictures are just as beautiful as girls with ‘sexy’ photos. 

3. Do not try to write to only beautiful women. Write to women that meet your requirements. If you don’t want to spend YEARS of sitting in front of your computer, always remember that you are looking for a long-term partner. Actually read what the ladies are saying in their photos, don’t only look at their photos. Make sure that their goals and interests match yours. The famous French writer Antoine de Saint-Exupery said: “The secret of a successful couple is not when they look at each other but when they look in the same direction.” Also, while reading carefully what the girls are saying about themselves in their profiles, you can check their fluency of English.” 

4. Ask her to take pictures in different environments (with friends, at work, near her house, etc.) Some girls do this; some don’t or do it very reluctantly just because they do not like taking pictures. In this case you can get to know her life, character and behaviour. 

5. Upload your best profile picture yourself. This advice is vital if you want to increase your chances in online dating.  Many men are shy and don’t upload any picture at all or upload a photo of someone or something else. Call me fussy, but I do not register such people on www.luvrussians.com. On www.luvrussians.com we deal with real people. As American psychologists say, “You will never have the second chance to produce the first impression. Think about it. Your profile picture or video is your ‘dace’ on dating sites. If ladies don’t read your letter, they’ll look at your picture. If it does not appeal to them, they will move onto someone else. 

I do hope that these tips will be very useful for you and we have much more things to discuss in the coming blogs.