Love… there is no person who would not be touched by this topic. However, are there many people who are satisfied with their relationships? Looks like there are very few of them.
Many people run away from love into their work, which is not a way out as this escaping from love into work is one of the types of laziness that is called moral laziness.
Other people hold on to a certain person, and get stuck in the state of being in love in which they were 5-10-20 years ago. This is also a wrong way, everything changes, (and your love as well) and it is impossible to repeat the same happiness twice. Many psychologists think that the majority of people cling to that state of love, and try by every means possible to remain there, because love between a man and a woman, and that exciting feeling it gives, is available absolutely for everybody. Meanwhile, the state of bliss while creating something, (which is even stronger than the love between a man and a woman), is available only for a few people: sculptors, poets, writers and artists. That is why the topic of love is so relevant for the majority of people at all times. Just a few people can say that they are self-sufficient, and they are happy with themselves. A great French writer, Antoine de Saint-Exupery said that ‘the longest romance a person has is a romance with himself.’ The most important thing is to love yourself but not everybody understands it.
Many people have fears about their future, and that is why they hold on to unworthy partners, or care about people who do not care about them. This is a road to nowhere, as being with the wrong people means you just waste your time. And time is our biggest asset. Many people make this mistake due to their mode of thinking: “Love will come into my life and everything will change.” But things do not happen this way. Your personal life is being postponed and when such love comes, it quickly goes away. After that many people ask themselves where love has gone. But love has not gone anywhere because there has not been love but just an illusion of it.
A famous grand-master of Feng Shui Yap Cheng Hai said: “If you want to find an ideal partner, first become ideal for yourself.” So, develop, please! Only then you will attract an equal, worthy partner into your life, a partner that will respect you and feel your high self-esteem.
So, let us talk about love and the right attitude to it. Then, probably, you will understand what I mean. Let us build a new life with a new idea of love which you can find even online. I sincerely wish you to find that kind of love and hopefully you can find it on www.luvrussians.com.
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