4 Simple Rules Of Your Profile Pictures.

In this blog you will find out how to increase your chances to find your love on dating sites with the help of your photos.

Read our 4 Simple Rules: 

1. It goes without saying that it should be your photo. On small dating sites admins check their members’ identity very carefully and contact them by phone if necessary. 

2. Don’t think too much about the background of your photos. The most important thing on your photo is YOU, your face, eyes and hair. Your task is to make the girl that you like so much interested in you that she would be eager to cross the ocean to meet with you in reality. 

3. Your photos should be of GOOD QUALITY. Usually if photos are of bad quality, men do not receive ANY messages at all and then they decide that dating sites are not for them. Many men, when they register on FREE dating sites or social networks, think like this: “Oh well, it’s free anyway. I’ll try and see then how it goes…” That’s why sometimes even very handsome men remain unnoticed because of their ‘usual’ photos. Your profile picture should be awesome! As American psychologists say, “You will never have the second chance to produce the first impression.” 

4. Change your photos from time to time. Everything changes, so do you, you change together with your interests and tastes. That’s why you should update both your profile info and your pictures.

I hope you have found these tips useful and if you wish to add something or want a constructive argument, I am waiting for you in the comments! :)  

The Story About How The Two Young Men Chose Their Wives.

Two young men proposed to two girls to become their wives. One of them said: “I can offer only my heart for the girl who will share my difficult path with me.” The other one said: “I can offer a huge palace in which I want to share the joys of life with my future wife.”

One of the girls answered after thinking for a while: “The heart which you are offering is too small for me. It can be placed on my palm, but I should enter the palace myself and feel the space and light which will be able to bring happiness. In this palace there will be a lot of light and space, hence, a lot of happiness.”

The young man, who offered the palace, took the beautiful girl by her hand and said: “Your beauty is worth the grandeur of my palace.” And he brought the girl there.

The second girl gave her hand to the one who could offer only his heart and she said quietly: “There isn’t anything warmer and cosier than a human heart. Even the biggest palace won’t compare with the sizes of a human heart.” And the girl followed a difficult path with the one whom she wished to share her happiness with.

It was not an easy path. They had a lot of troubles and trials on their way, but it was always calm and warm in her beloved man’s heart and the feeling of happiness never left her. There was always a space in that small heart. It became huge from the Love it radiated on everyone. At the end of their way, on the top of the mountain which was hiding behind the clouds, they saw such sunshine, they felt such warmth, they felt such omnipresent Love that they understood what great happiness you can experience if you follow your heart.

The beautiful girl that had chosen a rich palace soon understood that no matter how big the palace was, it had limits. The palace started reminding the beautiful golden cage in which it was hard to breathe and sing. She looked from the windows, rushed amongst the columns but she didn’t find the way out. Everything oppressed her there but she knew that outside there was SOMETHING invisible but at the same time very beautiful. No grandeur of the palace could be compared with that invisible shining. The beauty understood that she could never experience that remote happiness. She did not understand where that happiness came from. She became very sad and sadness made her heart stop beating. And the beautiful girl died from sorrow in the beautiful cage she had chosen herself.

People have forgotten that they are birds. People have forgotten that they can fly. People have forgotten that there are endless spaces where you can never drown.

People have forgotten that to follow your happiness, you should follow a long and difficult path. And that is the sense of the human life.

Let's Talk About Love!

Love… there is no person who would not be touched by this topic. However, are there many people who are satisfied with their relationships? Looks like there are very few of them.

Many people run away from love into their work, which is not a way out as this escaping from love into work is one of the types of laziness that is called moral laziness.

Other people hold on to a certain person, and get stuck in the state of being in love in which they were 5-10-20 years ago. This is also a wrong way, everything changes, (and your love as well) and it is impossible to repeat the same happiness twice. Many psychologists think that the majority of people cling to that state of love, and try by every means possible to remain there,  because love between a man and a woman, and that exciting feeling it gives, is available absolutely for everybody. Meanwhile, the state of bliss while creating something, (which is even stronger than the love between a man and a woman), is available only for a few people: sculptors, poets, writers and artists. That is why the topic of love is so relevant for the majority of people at all times. Just a few people can say that they are self-sufficient, and they are happy with themselves. A great French writer, Antoine de Saint-Exupery said that ‘the longest romance a person has is a romance with himself.’ The most important thing is to love yourself but not everybody understands it.

Russian Woman Phenomenon.

A Russian bride and a Russian wife is the dream of many men. Many legends have been told about Russian women. Russian women are so beautiful that Western women start seeing a threat in them, both in the fashion business (“The Russians are coming!”), and in the dating-marriage market. In the West, they say that a Russian woman is a dream of the 1950s: she already earns her living but is still in awe in front of her man.

However, there are contradictions around the Russian Woman Phenomenon. And there is too much stereotyping as well in other nationalities. For example, Frenchmen are stereotyped to be gallant, brave and vain. Finnish people are stereotyped as quiet and stubborn. Englishmen are stereotyped as reserved, being gentlemen, snobs and having afternoon tea at 5 o’clock.

5 Reasons To Use Dating Sites For Online Dating Rather Than Social Networking Sites.

1. Dating sites have a clear purpose to connect people in a romantic way. I love social networks and I consider them to be a wonderful resource, but I think many people will agree with me that love relationships are very superficial there. You meet people, exchange a couple of emails, then you do not have time to answer back in this busy crazy life, then you make 100 more new friends and lose each other…


2. On dating sites you feel more special because you are plunged into a warm hearty atmosphere. Here you know exactly what you are doing: looking for love, for your soul mate. Whereas on social networking sites many people spend hours without any purpose: they play games, read shared articles, watch videos and look at the photos of the sleeping pets. Oh yes, I know it is fun. But come on, don’t you think that sometimes it just eats your time?

Love and Money.

Gentlemen, please, by no means think that women need only money. This is not so! Women need not only money but… high-ranking males! Yes. Women on a subconscious level feel deeply attracted to charismatic men, preferably with a high position in a society because deep-down in their subconscious mind there is a need to look for men with whom they would feel themselves comfortable and safe, both in happiness and adversity.Please do not be offended, but this is women's nature! You also look for good-looking and young or young-looking ladies with beautiful shapes. Women are not offended by you because of this. On the contrary, they try to please you by all means and look even more attractive and young. You are attracted to beautiful women with good shapes because on the subconscious level you wish to find the worthy mother of your children.....